ChaCha Questions / Answers

ChaCha Query: How can you get a girl to fall for you instead of someone better than you?
Don’t ever underestimate what confidence does for your chances with a girl.  What makes this other person better than you?  Is it because you think they are cooler than you, or better looking than you?  With girls, it [...]

ChaCha Query: My boyfriend’s moving away, how can we make our relationship work?
Distance is hard on even the best relationships.  The biggest issue is you both have to be equally committed to making this relationship work.  Plan visits as often as you can.  Talk to each other as much as you can.  My husband moved [...]

ChaCha Query: How do you get the guy you love to love you back?
Oh how I wish someone had told me about this back when I was single and dating.  I fell so hard and fast for the guys I dated, but I was the only one trying.  If you haven’t read the book or [...]

ChaCha Query: What should I do if my boyfriend just dumped me?
Try to turn this break up into something good for you.  Sometimes people lose themselves in a relationship, when it’s over they don’t know what do do with themselves.  First of all, say goodbye to that relationship.  Trust me, calling him & letting him [...]

ChaCha Query: What are the signs your boyfriend is cheating on you?
Yikes, that’s a rough one.  First let me just say that cheating on your girlfriend/boyfriend is crazy and selfish.  If you are so unhappy in your relationship, it is much easier on all people involved if you just break up.  Then you bypass the [...]

ChaCha Query: How do I get a married woman to date me?
My first reaction to this question was, um seriously?  Then I really thought about it.  Why would you be interested in a married woman?  While I’m sure there are many reasons for this, the one that sticks out the most is that you are [...]

ChaCha Query: My boyfriend and I broke-up but we got back together after he said he’d changed.  Now, I like someone else.  What should I do?
You have to live your life for you.  So many girls get back together with their ex’s for all the wrong reasons: it’s easier that way, they feel bad, or [...]

My name is Thea (pronounced taya).  I started working for ChaCha in February of 2008.  I’m a 32 yr old wife and mother of one.  I have a Bachelor’s degree in English with a minor in Psychology from Indiana  University.  My blog “Thea Talk” earned its title from the many, sometimes long-winded, talks I was [...]